I've posted a few stories from my wife here. She has a very slutty past—body count north of 50—and tons and tons of one-night stands, MFMs, stuff like that. Honestly pretty extreme (imho).
I've always found her sluttiness kind of surprising, because she's not "the type"—she's really shy, insecure, and not flirty. She's very pretty and extra petite (4'11'). If you saw her you'd never imagine she was slutty.
I know the source of her sluttiness (mental health issues, insecurity, anxiety, and a bad past), but I've always wondered how she managed to get laid so much being as shy as she is. A lot of the stuff she's done (MFM!) is hard to organize even when you're super forward, let alone when you're ultra shy.
So a few nights ago she got pretty wasted (like...actually wasted) and she ended up revealing that getting blackout drunk was her MO. More than her MO, it was her kink: she liked (and apparently still likes) to get wasted/blackout drunk and put herself in risky situations to be taken advantage of.
It's not "noncon"—she claims she enjoyed it, and at no point did she say "no" to the guys. She doesn't like violence or forcefulness. It's more about putting herself in a situation in which she consents to being used, albeit in a way where her consent is borderline.
This, I recently found out, includes at least one time with 4 guys.
It also explains why she always claims she "doesn't remember" details. While I'm sure that sometimes that's a bluff, it's also true bc she was blackout drunk a bunch of times.
Her body count is also probably a lot higher than the number she's given me.
I'm not sure how to feel about this. Noncon/semicon is not really something that turns me on, but it is hot to know that she has dark kinks like that.
I don't really know what to do with this info. If it's something I should let be, if it's something I should include as roleplay in our sex life, or what... but I figured I'd drop it here and share.
My wife had a lot of her experiences when drunk as well. I admittedly do have an intoxication (not just alcohol) kink, but not a nonconsent kink. I just think that getting to that place of easy because intoxicated is hot. I guess because she personally held the view that hooking up when drunk is OK and just like a part of life, I at least don't really see her "consenting while drunk" as nonconsensual.
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