For those of you that have discovered you weren't the most well-endowed lover your wife or girlfriend has ever been with, how did you stumble upon that information?

For me, my wife had told me for years that I was her biggest. She mentioned an ex-boyfriend in college came closest, but that the rest of her lovers were relatively average in size (with the exception of one ex who was on the small side). Over the years, as I got more into hotpast and she became more comfortable sharing details about her past, the story started to morph.

At first, it was, "I don't really remember much about Tyler (college ex-bf) down there." Then it became, "you're the biggest, but Tyler was pretty close." Not long after that, she said, "you guys are about the same size." The next time it came up a few months after that, I asked her to level with me, and what the real story was, since it had changed over time.

She finally told me that she hadn't been entirely truthful with me, and the reason she hadn't was to protect my ego. After asking a few more questions, it turned out that Tyler had been majorly packing. She estimates that he was probably close to 8" long and thicker than a roll of TP, so probably 5.75-6" thick.

While I didn't necessarily appreciate the lack of forthrightness, thinking about all the fun she must have had over the year plus they dated is pretty hot!