I was texting with my girlfriend today and wanted to get more in her head about what she likes. I know she's submissive and had asked her if she likes more the mental or physical aspect of being dominated and here was her response:

'Both. The point of being dominated is to have control taken from me and not have to worry about literally anything but feeling good and making the dom feel good. Basically - head empty, pussy full lol being fucked absolutely dumb is very freeing'

I then asked her if she had been fucked dumb a few times and got this back:

'I think only once before? Kinda where the dumbification kink came from lol when an ex absolutely obliterated me because he was blasting music and no one could hear'

Of course hearing her say she was obliterated has me unbelievably turned on. I didn't get any more details about that time but I certainly have something new to think about as well as planning for what I can do to play into her kink