Hi all, masculine bi husband here. & mostly straight wife. We’re a few years into a strong & happy marriage. We’ve had lulls in the bedroom before, but usually have a phenomenal sex life.
We had an experience on vacation a while back where we dabbled with a heterosexual full swap with another couple. We all had a great time, but didn’t actually take clothes off. The wife & I agreed that it was a good idea we passed on the sex, as our relationship wasn’t in as good a place as it is now.
We’ve since defined our desires & boundaries. Wifey’s decided that she’s the only lady in my life, but she’s excited by the idea of watching me pick up & take another man home with us. She’s permitted to play, or watch. But I’m definitely getting the best position in the whole shebang.
I’ve seen a relationship crack apart due to rushing into new partners/cuckqueen/etc and hurting what my wife & I have would devastate us.
Tl;dr- Bi Hubby’s wife is curious,
Does anyone have suggestions on how to “try it out” without too much pressure on her?
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