I dated my ex in college, and we became very close friends afterwards. She is bi and came out not long after she graduated. Sports girl, played softball in high school, very casual style without makeup and with casual clothes but with long hair. She dated a couple girls then met her ex, who she dated for many years and got engaged to. They made a big move together, bought a house, and so on. She was always professionally focused and kept her same sort of style and personality, very much the in charge type. Her and I remained close friends all along, but being that she was seemingly fully into girls, I didn't think much of it.

Then her engagement fell apart. Her ex moved out and started seeing another girl. She started to put more effort into her appearance. Dress nicer. Do her nails. Lashes. Tanning. New hairstyles. Seemed weird, figured it wouldn't stick, but it did. Kept on with the appearance changes. Highlights, fake tans, longer nails, eventually even went blonde. Dating habits seemed to have changed, too, although since we don't live close I don't know all that many details - we haven't been as close since she moved - but she is certainly going in a new direction. Mostly men, casually. Seemingly guys older than her, definitely taking a bit more of a passive or submissive role.

It's been very interesting to watch, and it's hot. Her dating girls never got to me but this did. Happy to chat about it!