Connection

When it comes to people posting in sub reddits like this, There will be those who are Wanting but curious. Then, there are those who are wanting anything they can get. Those in the 2nd group are usually those who will Try their best to get someone who will satisfy them. Those in the 1st group I'm looking for a mutual experience. If it's a heterosexual relationship is usually out of loneliness whether married or single, Having the need to be desired and wanted because they are not getting that in their current situation. It's a basic human need to be desirable to someone else both in males and females . The problem is in coming to these sub reddit's that much as what happens in a marriage people get mismatcperiod those who are seeking connection Make the mistake of Going for someone who's seeking instant gratification. In the case of a bisexual Need that has to be met, It's joined up with the desire To have connection. A relationship where there's trust and discretion. Many were seeking relationships in these forums, Are married in unsatisfactory marriages, They're reaching out trying to find something that will satisfy them. I myself am one of those in a marriage that's unsatisfactory. I've had the fortune of being involved with a few people With whom I've had a discreet, meaningful relationship. Both heterosexual and bisexual. For various reasons those relationships had stopperiod it's just a part of life. But the feeling goes on. Craving that human intimacy whether hetero or bisexual. Which are you the one who is just looking for their own gratification or 1 who's looking for mutual gratification? As for me I found that those who have a tendency to look for gratification will state that sort of thing. Usually men will say who wants to suck this or who wants to empty my pipe. Women will say who wants to fill my holes. I guess my reason for writing this is to let you know that you're not alone. If you seek meaningful discreet connection it can be done but you need to be wise in choosing. Do your homework by looking at a person's profile 1st to get a feel for what it is that they want and see if it matches up with your desire. Good luck to you and be safe.