I’ll probably be downvoted but I actually enjoy the sexuality.

I get a lot of euphoria from sex and being appreciated for my feminine features. It’s not welcome all the time, but 90% of the time I feel better about it all. As HRT does its thing I grow to feel more and more euphoric; bigger boobs, better butt, sexier curves is all part of the experience. I’m proud to feel sexually attractive.

I suppose the over sexualization makes me feel good because it brings euphoria and pushes away dysphoria. I will admit I have some bias as I’m extremely promiscuous compared to other people. It’s a positive feedback for me. I imagine, at least on some level, this is how most trans people feel too. It is very often our sexuality was repressed, if anything less open minded prior to our transition. So after you start transitioning you start doing more stuff you always wanted to do. A trans man flexing his chest, a trans woman showing a revealing outfit, a trans man asking about their bulge, a trans woman showing off her breast growth, etc. it’s not all sexual in intention, but it is sexual by nature. I don’t think this is a bad thing.

Overall, the trans community is a community filled with people who’ve been repressed most of their lives. People in this community is often also very open minded ; you kinda have to be in order to be part of the LGBT community, even more to transition, ya know. So it creates a community of people who are now free if repression and open minded about trying new things. Naturally, sex and sexual stuff will come up, especially stuff relating to chest and genitalia the parts that hormones change most. There’s a reason why most trans people are feeling very euphoric after having sex. It feels reaffirming knowing that the hard work you’re putting in is working. Maybe you always wanted to be the hit stud/ cute girl in school and in this community you can feel that way. For the first time in your life you’re comfortable with who you are. You put that all in one community of people going through their amped up second puberty, it’s like a powder keg in a match factory.

Tl;Dr

Sexually repressed people no longer being repressed, going through second puberty, with the main topics being about our body. It’s no surprise it’s so sexual, it goes hand in hand.