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In order to be trans you have to have dysphoria
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The entire point of being trans is wanting to change from something that you were forced upon or given at birth into someone that better reflects who you are as a person. Why would someone want to change or feel the need to be something different if there isn’t some form of incongruence with your given identity? I don’t understand the idea that you don’t need dysphoria to be trans. I feel this idea draws more hate to trans people as it makes it seem like it’s a choice. I have never had a choice in who I wanted to be and who I truly am and putting out there that anyone can just choose to be trans makes it seem like anyone can choose the opposite. I can’t choose to not be trans. I can’t change. Dysphoria doesn’t have to be some huge hatred of all your body parts or some huge stress or anxiety in your life, but there has to be some reason beyond “I chose to be trans” for the entire label to mean something. If you are happier under the trans label there had to have been some reason that you weren’t as happy not being under it. You don’t have to medically transition but by making it seem like it’s a choice could lead to insurance electing that hrt or other surgeries are optional. Why spend all this money on healthcare when all these trans people can just choose not to be trans? Dysphoria can easily fit a lot of situations big or small but there has to be some issue that transitioning fixes.

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I think it’s more on the range of dysphoria. Not everyone has to have crippling dysphoria, some people might just not be comfortable in the body they’re given as much as they would a different one.

It’s in the same mindset as someone who gets breast implants. They might like their breast, but bigger breast makes them happier. Now of course it’s more nuanced than this as transitioning in our current time is permanent and expensive; but correct all the same. You can even stretch this to other realms of the future such as cybernetics, etc.

I personally didn’t mind being a man, but I am a lot happier as a woman. Why settle for “good enough” when you can be happier, right? What I’m trying to say is, you don’t have to have miserable crippling dysphoria. Most of us lived most of our lives thus far as the opposite gender, and didn’t even know transitioning was a thing till a few years ago. We were content; but content doesn’t mean fully happy, it just meant happy enough.

Overall, whether dysphoria or no dysphoria I always tell people to think it over. It’s their bodies and their decision, I don’t govern that.

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