Coming soon - Get a detailed view of why an account is flagged as spam!
view details

This post has been de-listed

It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.

74
everytime we meet someone who thinks I’m cis (passing), my friend tells them I’m “actually” trans
Post Body

I’m Pre-T for context. Obviously have bad dysphoria and a fear of passing but I naturally already look androgynous so it’s usually not too big of a problem even though it’s obviously still painful.

My best friend has a lot of friends that know of me but don’t know me. Multiple times my friend will tell me “hey did you know (name) thought you were cis? They had no idea you were trans!!!!”

Which is obviously very validating for me but…. Am I wrong for being a bit upset that my friend tells someone I’m trans every time they think I’m a cis guy? Once she tells them I’m trans I feel like they’ll only see me as a trans guy, not a guy.

Comments

Time for new friends

Author
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
832
Link Karma
384
Comment Karma
448
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Transgender Man (he/him)

Subreddit

Post Details

We try to extract some basic information from the post title. This is not always successful or accurate, please use your best judgement and compare these values to the post title and body for confirmation.
Posted
1 year ago