I've been daydreaming of buying one of these for a long time. One of the things that has deterred me is wondering whether it can be used in the other room without waking someone up or alerting them to what is going on.

My partner (F) and I (M) use toys in our sex life, both of us enjoying being the receiving partner on different occasions. We have an extensive dildo collection that we've both explored together. Sometimes it's me using them on her, sometimes it's her using them on me.

Sometimes I use toys solo on myself when we aren't together, generally she'll be sleeping in the other room while I am in my office/den. Our schedules don't always line up. She is supportive of this (she finds it hot, so she says), but I don't want to wake her up at midnight when I'm burning the midnight oil and she has to be up at 6:00AM.

So what's the verdict? Is this something that can be enjoyed in a room over through regular drywall without the other noticing? Curious what people's experiences are.