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Monogamous, but getting matches who are polyamorous?
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I (32F) am strictly monogamous and looking for a long-term relationship / life partner; my profile clearly denotes that.

Over the last week or so, I have gotten an overwhelming number of likes and roses from people who are poly / enm, as well as having their profiles show up for me.

For context, I would normally see a profile like that about once a week (if not less), and now they constitute about 30% — 40% of profiles I see or that try to match with me. It’s a bit of a turn off to a) get excited by the initial profile then realize we want different things and b) some of their comments have been somewhat inappropriate and aggressive. Overall, it just seems like a waste of everyone’s time (and likes)!

Does any one have any idea how or why this is happening? Is it possible that I liked the profiles of people who are poly / enm but had it hidden, so that impacted my algorithm somehow?

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