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Is it bad to ask why someone is ghosting you?
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I (21F) met this guy (25F) on hinge. We talked on the phone for about 2 weeks before meeting up and it was absolutely great. We had banter and I honestly saw potential in the guy. We hung out twice and the second time, we kind of did a little more than kiss but not the full thing. The next day I texted him letting him know that I wasn’t really looking for an fwb just so we are on the same page. He agreed and said that isn’t what he wanted either. But the days following I noticed he was replying short with me and taking longer to respond when he would usually respond in minutes. A couple days ago he left me on read mid conversation. I kind of left it alone because his prerogative, but now I’m wondering if I did something. So as the title says, should I text him asking if I did something wrong or just try to restart conversation and see what happens? I think after this I’m not too sure that I want to pursue anything with him but I think for myself and for future partners I’d like to know what turned him off of me if that is the case. Anyways lmk what you all think?

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