Hey /Hingeapp, I saw some good responses to "Thoroughly confused" and "Went on two dates and vacation for two weeks" questions and thought I'd try my own long version.

I (30 M) matched with someone (27 F) several months ago and to date we have been on 3 dates and 2 meetups. Texting has been fun and playful since the beginning with me mostly initiating but then once the convo dies a bit leaving her with the last word before I pick it back up again a few days later.

1st date was drinks and went really well. Due to work/vacay schedules and general misses it wasn't for another month until we could go on a date again. In the meantime we continued texting about the same until she suggested she must've missed my text for national margarita day so I suggested another date.

The 2nd date was really great and one of the most fun I've had. She suggested several restaurants for future dates if "I wasn't tired of her and wanted to see her again". Again, she left for work the next day for that weekend, the following week, and that weekend. Texting continued much the same.

She asked me to meet her friends out the next Fri and I couldn't make it, but was out the next night and she came out with her friends to meet my friends and I. We went home together and did some making out with no sex.

Couple days go by and I reach out and she reminds me she's gone that Thu for another trip. The 1st of 3. But suggests a Wed movie night before she leaves. Great hang and I go down on her and she returns the favor, again no sex.

This is where it kind've comes off the rails for me.Text her about her trip Mon as she is coming back and I was left on read. Text her Wed and she said it was a busy week and she had been tired but apologized for not responding. She asks what I'm doing and I mention a pretty busy weekend, hoping I can invite her out for one event. She says that she is leaving again Thu-Mon. Text her Mon about her trip, good convo, and she reminds me that she is leaving for 2 weeks for a fam trip to E Europe on Fri, so I suggest a hang before she leaves on Thu. She says she may be able to but doesn't know due to having to pack. Next day she says that she's open Thu but just for drinks and not a full dinner. I did notice a day or two before that her Hinge profile and updated photos and shortly after she unmatched me.

Thu rolls around and we do dinner/drinks, but it feels weird and I can see her phone going off constantly. As we walk out she mentions that she's never been to the bar next door which has a rooftop bar, I suggest we grab a drink and she declines. Taking her home I ask her over for another drink and she declines. At her place I suggest a quick makeout before she leaves, she says yes excitingly, but again feels forced. At this time she asks if we should exchange last names (?). That night she texts me late asking to exchange last names. I do and give her my social handle too

Next day she follows me on social and we talk some as she's flying over. My last text was either not delivered or left on read. She sends me a meme and I reply with one the next day. Following day I reply to her story and we have a short back and forth so I reply again via text. Both social and text have been left on read for a day now.

Any thoughts, am I being led on?

Not sure what is happening and I like her so it is a bit frustrating. Just for context I get maybe 1-2 matches a day on Hinge, have roughly 6 not replied to from over the weekend, and roughly 20-30 matches per day on Bumble. So I seem to have interest and usually am on the other end of these things. Any advice from the community would be really helpful.