Serious question. I noticed that hikis have very different psychology and value systems than normies. I've been super socialized my whole life that I didn't notice it until now. Kept on thinking about normal ideas of what are "healthy" relationships and attachments, and expecting similar from hikineet friends. Some of my NEET friends don't mind that, as they intend to go back into society. But I'm not sure I have the same goals now; I'll probably withdraw more and more tbh.

What do the more shut-in / socially withdrawn people here want in their friendships and daily interactions? Somebody to chat with about things? Or playing / doing activities together? Or would you rather be left alone mostly?

And, if I like you, would that bother you? How can I be less annoying to a hiki?

Thanks in advance for responding.