Even as a mod of this sub, I'll be the first to admit I've never had a true HFWO before. For 8 years now (yes, that long!), I've been trying and learning and growing. Then, yesterday it finally happened. I had gotten myself aroused, edged for about an hour, and then really focused on feeling good and on the content I was consuming, all without my hands. I don't know how or why, but I got to the point of no return and I knew it had finally come (or rather I had)! I wish I had some golden rule to share with y'all, but unfortunately, I'm still in the process of figuring all this out for how to get consistent HFWOs. That being said: do not give up! Like I said, it took me 8 years of trial and error to get here. Sure, that seems like a long time, but about 6.5-7 of those years were without the guidance of reddit. In fact, I was convinced I was alone in this endeavor. But look around and see that there is a treasure trove of experience on this site.

If one thing was different this time around, it was the discovery of this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/hfo/comments/yzxolt/guide_for_achieving_a_hfo/

I cannot promise that it will be an instant solution. I can't even promise it will work for you at all, but it might be a starting point on your journey to success. If you need any more advice, please feel free to reach out to me. I'm more than willing to share my experience and wisdom (if one would call it that). I'm still in disbelief that this day has finally arrived. And if you think I'm making a bigger deal out of it than I need to, just think of the last time you waited 8 years to get something you wanted! 😂

EDIT: It’s worth mentioning that my edging was also handsfree. That part may be confusing, but I’ve had a method I’ve used for a while now. I’m also willing to give tips on that. I understand it’s a unique way of edging, if one wants to consider it that, but I promise you it feels almost exactly the same, if not better. A lot of my technique is derived from places such as r/Mindgasm