TL;DR: Some folks are reporting posts that totally fit our rules. Take our survey to help us figure out if these rules still represent our subreddit.

Pre-amble: Back in December, we did a "What is Heteroflexible" survey to check if our sub's views on what fits r/heteroflexible align with what our users think should fit our subreddit. If you'd like a rundown of what that entailed, what the poll told us, and how that affected our approach to moderating this sub, see my comment below. To recap: We held a poll, some stuff got strong support, some stuff had very little support, some stuff was somewhere in the middle. We didn't change the purview of our sub much, but did become slightly more lenient to some content.

All that brings me to the purpose of this post:

1) Should we continue allowing posts of men frotting and/or jerking together without a woman?

These have pretty much always been allowed here. While these obviously don't involve women, plenty of guys like jerking together (even to straight porn) and that kind of flexibility works well with the vibe of our sub--or at least that's part of the argument in favor of these posts. In the survey, these types of posts got between 40-60% support. "Two or more men jerking together (without any woman)" got a basic majority. We've continued to allow posts like this. BUT we've gotten some reports on these posts lately so I want to double check with our community.

2) Should we allow more male-male oral in threesomes?

These have generally not been allowed here. Our way of looking at it has usually been: some incidental oral (like a quick lick or two while fucklicking) is OK but a full-on male-male blowjob is not. If it's a borderline case, sometimes we'll wait and see what the community thinks of the post in question. BUT we've been seeing a considerable amount of male-male oral here and we want to see how the community feels about it.

To help us figure this out, take this survey. It's anonymous and shorter than the original survey. (It is on google forms because that is generally more accessible/useful than reddit's built-in polling system.)

REMEMBER: You don't have to like something to think it should be allowed here. Not every post will be everyone's favorite and that's okay. If you don't see enough of the heteroflexible stuff you like, feel free to post more of it (as long as it fits our rules).

As always, we're open to community input (that's the whole point of this post/survey). Thanks for helping to make this subreddit the community it is.