TL:DR m33 dating f32. Shes had a traumatic exp that shaped her life & is wonderful but it still affects her. I can do something abt it — but idk if its the right choice.

I'm going to make this short as possible. M (early 30s) dating F (early 30s). She was raped violently 15y ago by a guy 5-6 years older than her at the time.

She opened up to me abt it recently. Find out that he's in my professional orbit. Mutual friends etc. I am so fucking angry and disgusted.

There is a court case & it was settled w a restraining order. Based on what I was told he basically got off scot free no repercussions.

I am cold and calculating enough to ruin his professional life over this. And I want to. I want to more than anything barring time travel to save my ff this experience - or somehow humiliating her by taking this fucking prick's life away (professional sense - send court docs to employer or something).

What do I do. God damn. I just needed to vent.

Fuck men. I'm so sorry for the bs some women have dealt w bc of us. I wanna cry and hit him. With a brick. I won't but what a fucking bastard.