Hiya everyone. Not sure if this is the right place for this but it's really been getting to me. So recently I made a post on another reddit venting on how dating in the south as a GNC male or femboy is difficult due to everyone seemingly wanting traditional relationships and some rude guy commented saying that it was both me not looking attractive and being into a fetish that is seen as unappealing to most. The first part of the insult doesn't bother me much but... Is that how crossdressing/being gender nonconforming is seen? A fetish? Is my entire identity seen as nothing but a sexual topic? That thought really disturbed me and has sent me into a downward spiral...