A question I have received numerous times over the years:

I am contemplating going to Hedonism for the 1st time as a (recently) single 40 male next month. I’m in good shape, would enjoy some fun and social interaction with others as well as relaxation. I welcome any input / stories to shed some light on going as single guy.

My answer:

I’m really no expert as I have only been to Hedo 15 times but I’ll try to answer your question the best I can based FAQ’s I have answered in the past from my knowledge and experiences there.

Are single men welcome/able to partake in the social interactions or are single men frowned upon generally?
Yes, singles are allowed at Hedo (unlike other resorts) and are even allowed in the Romp (Play) room at night if invited by a couple.
However, not all groups are open to singles (unless it is single ladies).

Some groups do allow and encourage singles (male and female) because they adopt the same attitudes and openness of Fantasy Fest in Key West

Singles that come to Hedo as singles are looked upon by some as completely different than singles attached to and booked thru groups.

I consistently had singles in my group since our 1st Hedo Group Trip in 2005 and because they are seen with me and the Krewe, and are identified as being with us with their distinctive Krewe beaded-name necklaces and room-key corded wristlets, they are already considered “cool and safe” by other guests and are included in all the activities of the group.

Single guys that either don’t socialize and just hang out, lurk and watch are often not looked upon favorably. Same goes for those singles that grab onto or insert themselves into situations or activities that they were not invited to. I have had as many as 4 single girls and 5 single guys in previous groups and singles often gravitate towards other singles but being in a group seems to create an instant connection and a source of identifying with each other.

Singles that exhibit respect, courtesy, willingness to help, participating in the various Hedo events like costumed theme nights etc, seem to really enjoy their experience more at Hedo.

What is the average age of the singles at Hedo?
Average age at Hedo varies week to week based on what groups dominate the resort in numbers.
I’d say the past few years at Hedo with both my group and resort in general with the other groups, that the average age range of singles is 30-60. There are always a few 20-somethings but they mostly stay on the clothing optional (prude) side while the majority of the people are on the nude side and there are always people there from 30-70 and some of those interesting people have been coming to Hedo for 25 years.

Also, age is basically irrelevant at Hedo. I have met both fascinating 20 somethings and incredible people in their 60’s and 70’s. Besides, no one acts their age at Hedo—even me! LOL

What is best time to go and how do singles book a trip to Hedo?
Best time to go? That all depends on you.
Many northern USA states and Canadians book in their winter time as a good getaway to a warmer latitude. However, winter is HIGH season for rates, occupancy and airfares, etc. and the water temperatures may not be as pleasant although Hedo recently installed a pool heater for the nude pool.

June is LOW season for rates and airfares plus, June temperatures in both pools and Caribbean waters are perfect, the rainy season has really not started and the air temps/humidity are manageable thanks to the island breezes.

Some travel groups that book singles allow the singles to receive the various benefits from low group rates to exclusive participation in certain events.

As a single, just like anywhere else, you have a single supplement fee with the all-inclusive room rate unless you agree to room with a same-gender roommate if no single rooms are available

NOTE: Singles can also book a room with another same sex single and then they both pay the lower room group rate.

Anyway, I hope that helps a little. Remember, no two group requirements or expectations are alike though.

I also have a discussion forum topic about singles here:

www.flickr.com/groups/hedonismresortgrouptrip

https://fetlife.com/groups/96287