My(F20) heart hurts again. It’s been a year since our breakup. He claimed he lost feelings for me and broke up with me. Yesterday I saw them together at the gym and my heart broke again. We go to the same college so it’s not like I can avoid him. I’d see him around for sure. How do I move on? I feel like I’m losing my mind.

We broke up a little over a year ago. Before we broke up, i noticed he was distant and asked about it but he claimed he just had a lot he was going through. And then a month before the breakup he told me he had been distant on purpose to make me detach and break up with him. But then he said he still wanted to be in the relationship with me. And he said he felt like he wasn’t good enough for me and he said he felt like I didn’t like him anymore. I reassured him that he was still very important to me and I wanted to be with him. Only for him to tell me a month later that he lost feelings. The whole time him and this girl had become like best friends. They were always together. When they met, she originally liked him but I was in a relationship with him.

I tried explaining to him that the girl liked him but he would deny it. He said she only thought he was cute. She originally had a crush on him when they met so I don’t know why he wouldn’t think it’s crossing a boundary getting to know someone else that you’re aware is attracted to you

I don’t know what to do. I think about it everyday and I feel like I can’t breathe. What do I do and how do I get over this?

This is the original post about the relationship if you want more context: https://www.reddit.com/r/heartbreak/s/YyVO2STRJg