I foolishly got into a relationship with a younger guy who is a narcissist. He is giving me little to no reason for the break up other then - “my actions are causing him to pull away”. Before things went south I decided to help him with a new career opportunity three hours north. I took out a couple of credit cards, went upside down in a new car with him as co-signer, and sent him money whenever I could. Then he started to pull away. He claimed he had no reception where he was and couldn’t talk or text. He started coming home for less time on the weekends. He never wanted to make plans and do anything with me. Our sex life floundered. When I questioned these things he accused me of distrust and I would be the one crying and apologizing After three years he sent me a text saying “ don’t overthink it but I think it’s best if we end it now” I can’t sleep I can’t eat and I am going to be in 50,000$ plus debt because of him. I’m devastated can’t eat sleep and am being sent home from work because I can’t stop breaking out into hysterical tears I’m losing the will to live. The chest pains are killing me. I had three saltine crackers yesterday and a cup of pedialyte - it made me sick to eat even that I’m falling apart He is coming here tomorrow to get the rest of his things I’m terrified to tell him the car - which he knows I can’t afford on my own - is staying here- he is going to win and take it he’s going to convince me somehow I know it I can’t breath and don’t want to if it means I don’t have to live with this pain anymore I don’t even know why I am posting this here I’ve never been a social media person but I’m so lost