It’s a beautiful peaceful morning here at Haulover beach and it got me thinking.

I read so many posts and comments about people being shy to come because of how they look.

Listen, physical appearances aren’t what make this beach so attractive to me. I’ve seen all kinds of different people with different bodies here that I find extremely attractive to be around, not solely based on if they are fit or not or if they are young or not but based on how they carry themselves.

Be confident in who you are and don’t assume that people don’t see you as beautiful. The energy you bring here is so much more important.

I know this can be easier said than done, as a guy I have always struggled to not care how I’m “hanging” or ,when there’s wind or a chill, the lack there of hanging 😂 but I try and remind myself that it’s me that’s focused on that and I can’t bring my best energy to this beautiful place if I’m stuck in my own head about something superficial.

Being nude in nature is the most magical and energizing thing ever if you allow it to be but you just need to surrender yourself to it and not get caught up in your own head. I guarantee that if you bring your confidence, love and respect to this place, everyone around will find you attractive.

Lastly, I know the mob will be in the comments “the beach shouldn’t have anything to do with attractiveness!” You can shove it! It’s human nature to want to feel attractive to others and anyone who says otherwise is plain lying. I’d rather help people feel attractive than tell them it’s not when we know damn well it’s a basic human desire that we all have.