42M here.. single (was married). Have been looking to connect with someone mature and genuine.. it's more about having meaningful connect with whom one can share mind and heart..

But then it is proving to find a needle in a big hay,. most people are shallow and impatient. for them a connect is just having senseless parties and 'fun'.. and then having multiple connects..

Are we in times, where the old good way of building up relationship no longer holds? Since people have lot of options nowadays so all they care is to keep hopping from one person to another.. Have lost hope to find something sensible and matching wavelength.. just a hope against hope.