Ok so I'm 2 months into 19 and wanna have my first hookups, I found this guy who is super attractive, willing to let me guide the pace and explore, is kinky if we get that far, and is really into my looks too (which helps bc I'm shy af irl). The only problem is that I can't host bc I'm living with my parents while getting my associates degree and I don't want guys in the house even if they're not here, and the guy I'm talking to has a room mate. He said if we hit it off he'd be willing to get a hotel and let us hang out there, but idk where we can hookup for the first time. We don't know any places for car play too and if we got caught it would probably be bad (we are in the Bible belt).

Any tips or ideas? Like I said I'm new to this so I'm just looking to experiment and all that ya know