was going to post this a while back but decided to now that I've had time to think about it all. this man claims to be genderfluid to make trans people comfy. he is not. 2 months ago he invited me to a hotel room with him and we did a consensual impact play scene that he claimed he was well versed in. he clearly was not because he slapped my face so hard that I now have nerve damage. he went after me because I'm newly 18 and ftm trans (pre t). I post this to warn others about him. he doesn't disclose age in his profile, but later told me he was 28. I don't have screenshots because I blocked him after our meetup, but he had very 'taboo' kinks/fetishes. for example, he made me call him dad instead of daddy and then told me how he would like to rape me, get me pregnant, then rape my daughter while I watch. he also told me he wanted to dissect me while we were having sex. I just want to warn others that he is much MUCH too rough. I have photos of the purple and green bruises he left me with. if he messages you, please save yourself some trauma and decline. he has made me fearful of hookups since. even if you are into rough, cnc, or bdsm scenarios, please be weary of him. he does not listen when you ask him to stop and I literally could barely walk for nearly a week after because I was bruised everywhere. it took a month to be able to have anything penatrate my vagina without it bleeding and hurting.

I just really really don't want to see another person end up in my situation. please be careful on grindr.

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