So I'm on my first watch. And I'm on 16 EP19 or the Ep where Jo meets her mom. And I just... Wow like I understand that stuff like that happens in real life. A friend of mine is a rape baby. But why can't they give her a happy backstory.

From the background I know rember is now. Her mom was assaulted and gave her up and she was thrown from foster home to foster home where she lived in a car. And then meet her first husband who abused her for years and she was only able to escape by Changing her name. Only for him to find her and die in front of her.

She gets married to a man she loves and then from spoilers I've already got from my friend who watched show Alex leaves her for his Izzy and the kids that he randomly got from her eggs that they froze in the early seasons.

Why can't Jo or Meredith get a break. It's wild. Like what did these to do