First, I’ll preface this with I’m not a writer by any means. The last thing I wrote was a letter to a neighbor about their damn dog, which still hasn’t stopped barking in seven months. I’m not talking about random barking, I’m talking about nonstop for two hours at time, so annoying! I won’t go into too much about my lifestyle or where it started, as it is a fairly long story. I’ll keep this as short as possible to get to the point of how I stumbled across this subreddit, and to the point of my title of November.

I’m in a Stag/Vixen Hotwife lifestyle, and about four years ago we had a profile up on an Adult Dating Website. Those sites are filled with flakes! Luckily, we came across a profile that we were both intrigued by and started chatting with Jim. We added Jim to our potential Bull list, however we never followed through with meeting any of these guys we had chatted with. One November evening, after several drinks, we jumped on to the site as we were both horny and looking to add a third for the evening. We had never done anything like this before. As in, inviting some random internet guy over to our house. Jim of course, was all in, and plans were made for a couple of hours away.

Both my Husband and I were sitting there, dumbfounded, looking at each other and claiming, “what in the hell had we just set up?!” Jim came over late in the evening, we all chatted about the lifestyle, how all three of us ended up in it, and the regular get to know one another type of meeting. If I ever write another story here, I’ll explain in detail a bit more about my sexual experiences with him. To keep it brief, Jim turns out to be very Thick and Hung at 9 inches. I could tell right away he had experiences being a Bull, as he was aggressively pounding my fucking brains out! I was enamored, to say the least, with this new stunt cock that we found! I didn’t realize at the time, but this session went on for almost two hours, and I ended up cumming thirteen times, as my Husband counted!

Jim and I and my Husband, develop a great connection that ends up going on for a four-year period. Jim and I ended up doing quite a bit together as he was my regular Fuckbuddy, and I couldn't resist how well he pounded me senseless! We had sex while hubby was at the office, on lunch breaks, even in the backseat while hubby drove. I’ve even stayed the night at his place a few times. Now, we have been in the lifestyle for a while, and know that guys come and go. To no real surprise, after about a year, Jim ends up getting a girlfriend and ghosting us.

Jump to November of the following year, Jim ends up texting and we continue where we left off. By this time, I had really embraced being a Hotwife, and started to learn more about it. I found out about Locktober and No Nut November, and I wanted to give it a try for a week. Hubby agreed to it but had no idea when this week would take place. My plan was to have hubby locked in his cage, while Jim came over, and to his surprise, this is the week I decided to make it happen. The twist though…Jim gets to hold onto the chastity key until I fuck him again, the next week! It turns out, this was a lot more exciting than I had ever anticipated, and seriously empowering! I Loved the control and the tease that went along with it the entire week. Hubby definitely struggled with it though. By the end of that week, I was hooked and was already looking forward to doing it again. So now, each November, I lock my Husband in chastity for the entire month.

Jim ends up with a girlfriend again, and the same story essentially repeats itself over and over for the next couple of years. We had learned quite a bit about Jim during that first year, and realize around football season and around November, we always end up hearing from Jim. See, he has ties to NFL football players, which apparently, is more important to him than the girlfriend at the time….minus always wanting to fuck me! I hadn’t heard from Jim over this last year and figured this relationship had come to total end, after being ghosted several times, with me trying to get laid. Surprise, surprise, guess who just texted again. My text back to him was a picture of me nude, holding the key, and “guess who has been locked up for over a week?” His text the other day inspired this story as it hadn’t ever been told. Turns out there is a subreddit for this exact thing! Hope you enjoyed it. Open to answering questions. ~Kendall