I love giving pleasure. As my tastes and kinks have evolved over the years i think I've become what people sometimes call a service top. I get turned on by the idea of dominating a woman through pleasure. Providing and building sensual pleasure and then delaying it or denying it is just so erotic because it means that my partner has to beg and plead for me to give them a release. Theres only really true power in being able to deny someone something and the hottest form of that for me is in bringing a woman just to the edge of orgasm and then keeping her there for as long as we can maintain it. Maybe ill back off for a little while to frustrate her and show her that although I'm giving her pleasure this is all about my pleasure. I love watching my partners body writhe, grip the sheets try to fuck my my face, moan, gasp, squeal, beg and tremble and shudder.

It was with this in mind that I had made a couple of posts to some local subreddits looking for a partner who had not had an orgasm for a while or ever had an experience focused on them so I could really ramp up the experience. I chatted with a few women, and ended up connecting with a law student who was in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. She was in her mid 20s with vibrant red hair and a runners body. I think she was training for a half marathon at the time. She was relatively petite and adorable B cup breasts. We agreed to the basic premise that I would give her a sensual massage (I wanted to practice some tantric ideas that I had been reading about) and then I would tease her with my fingers and tongue for as long as she could handle.

Based on the boring logistics of two people meeting up we had a four hour window in which to play. We met up at a coffee shop to feel each other out in person, had a nice chat and decided to move to a hotel.

If you've read my other posts, you know that I have some unique kinks, I love hairy pussy, unwashed so I can enjoy a woman's natural perfume, and dirty panties ( Not bathroom stuff, just like panties that she had masturbated in and kind of lived in for a day or so). Once we got to the hotel she told me that she had been edging in them and gone for a run and I know that she had a full and gorgeous red bush. We made out a little bit before we got to the hotel and vibed.

Once we checked in, I got out my massage oil and She stripped down to her panties and laid face down on the bed. She was wearing a pair of sexy black leopard print panties and she told me she worked out in them before we met up. Despite how excited I was to taste and smell her. I think it's important to take things slow and start with just building physical contact from relatively benign and then building sensation and relaxation while shifting towards more sexy erogenous areas.

We started out with a full body massage. I brought a blindfold and asked her to focus just on the physical sensation of my touch. I began rubbing her shoulders and progressed to her back. Working slowly with long deep strokes trying to tease out any tension in her muscles. After working down to her lower back, I moved to back to her shoulders and worked on her arms, forearms and hands for 5-10 minutes. I applied plenty of massage oil so I could glide my fingertips over her skin as I transitioned from area to area trying to maintain physical contact at all times. I could feel the warmth building in her body as her muscles relaxed and her breathing deepened. I shifted to her feet and began working my up her legs. I worked on her achilles and calves. As I started on her hamstrings I began to gently make contact with my lips, grazing her skin and letting her feel my hot breath on her body. As I moved further up I gave her light gentle kisses on her legs while I worked on her inner thighs and eventually her ass, deeply inhaling the perfume of her sex and sweat as I neared her panties. I could feel the heat and tension building as I deeply massaged her ass and began letting my fingertips gently probe towards her sexual areas. Her breathing quickened and she began moaning as her breath became a shallow and ragged. Her feet flexed and she began lightly gripping the sheets as she expected me to move deeper. At this point we had been going for maybe an hour so I asked to roll over onto her back while I massaged her front. I massaged the muscles under her breasts, gently but firmly and began the process of working her body again. I would get near her breasts or nipples and then pivot away back outside hoping that alternating the focus from her center to the outside would both relax her and simultaneously deepen the tension and eroticism. I would process around her breasts, circling her areolas with my fingertips, then my lips, light kisses and tongue and then pivot towards her arms and hands. After doing this twice her breath was shallow and ragged and she was gripping the sheets.

I moved down her torso, massaging her obliques and pelvis. The heat building was palpable and her legs were tense so I transitioned towards her feet again dragging my finger tips over her panties and down her legs while maintaining contact the whole time. As I worked her feet and legs again and moved up her legs kissing and licking as I neared her panties. I was again taking deep breaths so I could enjoy her sex. As I kissed and licked the seams of her legs and panties tasting the salt of her sweat and some of her juices she began to tremble. I asked her if she was comfortable with me removing her panties and tried to speak but her voice caught in her throat she nodded as my fingers hooked under the sides of her panties and slowly slide them off her gusset clung to her mound and some strings of juices briefly connected her panties to her lips. Her panties were saturated as I finally slid them off her feet I held them to face and audibly took a deep breath. I told her how delicious and sexy she smelled and thanked her for taking my kinks into account. She thanked me for the compliments and I shifted back towards the main event. We had been going for probably about 2, 2.5 hours by now.