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35 [M4F] #Lawrence/KC, Kansas - Recently lost 100 lbs. Looking to lose my virginity.
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Shootingmyshot87 is a male age 35 looking for a female in Los Angeles, CA
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I still weigh 440lbs though. Might as well get that out up front.

I've lost 100lbs over the past year in order to have bariatric surgery, which happened 2 weeks ago. Losing that much weight, I can already feel a huge difference and I'm so excited because I know it's only going to get better from here!

I've fooled around a bit with a girlfriend back in high school, but never did anything beyond heavy petting and would like to change that. I'm also interested in being instructed on how to best please a women. I take a methodical and meticulous approach to most things, and tend to be a quick learner, so I hope I could make practicing enjoyable for you.

I'd also enjoy just chatting. I have no trouble carrying a conversation from a professional or friendly point of view but have pretty much no experience flirting as I've never tried. I imagine the only way to get better is to just do it and fail miserably for a while, so if nothing else, I might be able to give you some laughs with my clumsy attempts. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated!

I don't really expect for this to work, but just trying it is something I wouldn't have even thought of a year ago. It's no surprise I have self esteem issues, but have been working with my therapist to change my outlook, and have made great progress with that as well. I still don't think anyone could be attracted to or desirous of me as I am now, but believe that it can and will happen someday. I'll keeping working on my physical and mental health until it does!

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1 year ago