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help me escape an abusive home
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Hi, my name is Sibbi. I'm 31 and I'm stuck.

I don't want to sugar-coat anything, my home life has become increasingly hostile over the past few years. Ranging from financial and emotional abuse which has only been escalating, from both my mother and my youngest sister. Because of this I have been unable to progress with my mental health which has severely deteriorated. I can barely work because of the stress and it has also been affecting my relationship with my friends and family. I recently was attempting to get weight loss surgery but I failed my psych evaluation because my mental health is so poor.

I can't continue to live like this, but it's nearly impossible with the cost of living currently to both save to move out and also continue to pay for my current bills. My mother takes almost all of my income and the rest of it goes towards pet expenses such as dog food, guinea pig food and hay. This leaves no extra for me to save. In addition my work has become "overstaffed" which is just a fancy way of saying that they are phasing out my department. Because of this I have been getting less and less hours from work even when I am mentally able to do so. In the past two weeks of "work" I only managed to work about 20 hours.

So my goal is to move as soon as possible. I am hoping to move about an hour away to Kansas City to be near my close friend Kierstin. Any funds received will go directly towards getting me moved out of this apartment. I am wanting to save for first and last months rent, application fees, moving expenses, pet deposits and pet rent if required. I also have no furniture or household items outside of my desk and my bed. Any additional funds will go towards utilities and getting things I need for my apartment.

Any help, even just a couple dollars or a share if you can would be so so appreciated. I am desperate to get out of this apartment and try to start over. I just want to be happy again and be able to work on my mental health. I can take all the medication in the world but it won't change my situation. If my home life is still a hell, I can't get better. Please help me get out of here.

Here's my link : https://gofund.me/1db97cc5

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