Hi, I’m a 21M uhh this my first post ever so here goes. I don’t know what’s wrong w me I feel like everytime i talk to a woman I like or show interest in someone I usually end up getting ghosted or after some time told that they are not interested. I’m not uninteresting or anything and I’m certainly not ugly either (for reference I’m ~200lbs 6’2 and generally workout 6 days out of the week) I’m nerdy I like anime, videogames, play basketball when I can, and going out to drink on occasion the normal shit. I work and make a comfortable amount of money to provide for myself too (so I know it’s not bc I’m a broke bum) I’m ngl I’m pretty shy and afraid to make the first move but I try bc I know I have to or else I won’t get anywhere. I’m talking to a woman rn, we’ll call her “S”. I’ve only been talking to S for almost a week and we were both looking for something long term, but I feel like I’m really the only one showing interest. I try to text back pretty fast (I don’t really like to make people wait on responses whether it be friend or love interest) and show her that I do care and want to get to know her. Maybe she’s busy maybe she isn’t. I just know that I’ve gone thru more unsuccessful talking stages than I can count and I’m tired of being played or getting ignored entirely. Idk anymore I know I’m still young but it feels like every interest that I have I try to show them affection I would assume they want, not overstep any boundaries and overall give them the respect they deserve, yet I get nothing but told that they aren’t interested anymore or flat out get no response. I’m just about ready to give up here. Help?