I (34F) reached out to my ghost (38M) after 10 months. He apologized.

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Maybulltaurus is looking for a female

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I reached out to my ghost recently to apologize for the harsh things I said to him when I realized he was ghosting me. He apologized for the way he disappeared.

I’ve been thinking to myself how it’s fascinating that I have no romantic feelings left for him. Seeing him type stopped me in my tracks while I was writing to him but it didn’t give me butterflies.

I just can’t stop thinking, why did I give this coward so much of my power? Why do I keep giving undeserving men so much power? Why can I not stick up for myself and demand respect. Why is mutual respect so hard to find?

Edit: I asked him why he ghosted. He said he had the flu so he wasn’t feeling too well to answer my question lol. I could still see he was active on GitHub though.

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