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Hello everyone in advance I would like to thank you for the help suggestions and opinions you have about my case, to start things off I met her last year in March on FB dating we didn't actually match (I saw her and went outta my way and actually searched for her she had stunned me with her beauty) at the time we was dating other ppl but regardless of that we maintained a great relationship everything was natural and got along well but eventually decided to stay with our respective ppl (decision I regret making) (we didn't cheat on them with each other perse but continued to talk) around September I finally broke up with my then GF but at the time she was having issues with her BF (she always did) but she tried to work on her relationship with him, I say this because from March to Sep of last year we met yes twice I might add the first time it was super chill just conversation nothing crazy at a brewery and the second one we went to the movies. For the first outing she was having issues with her BF hence why she accepted to meet becuz everything before that was purely over text, short videos or phone call, but then the second time at the movies she was down to meet but it seemed that she wanted to stay faithful to her BF cuz she constantly reminded me that it wasn't a date (by this time I didn't have a GF anymore) she decided to stop talking to me after that night because I came a bit too strong I told her what I really thought and felt for her (apparently that pushed her away regardless of her countless issues with her BF) we have each other on Instagram ever since we met but since she distanced herself from me by not communicating we in away still knew about each other by watching each other's stories she would always watched mine and so did I with hers. At times I would reply to them by saying what I thought about them kinda like having a normal conversation but the only difference was that she wouldn't respond to me so from September of last year to a few weeks ago right now in August she finally responded to me, it all started cuz she was sharing really depressive heartbreaking stuff so then I thought that something was going on which indeed was the case she was having issues with this other guy she was seeing apparently she broke up with the BF that she had when we met and now was having issues with this new one, we started talking like if nothing bad ever happened between us and it was the best time it was like we never stopped , she invited me over to her place and we then started having a good time actually together for once by eating listening to music drinking etc super chill nothing crazy we catched up in our lives but at the same time being flirtatious (I like her a lot but you know when you really like someone and sex is the last thing you think of) well that's my case not that I don't wanna fuck her brains out trust me I do but my feelings for her a true and it interests me to actually get to know her and be communicative and understanding. We finished with a kiss though which made me the most happiest man on earth but then after that she would Ghost me she would read my text and whatever I had to sent her way but not respond at all 3 weeks have passed since that day and continues to not respond I've been more creative with what I send her way I enjoy editing and making meme videos (mostly referencing her , myself and or us as a whole) she has reacted to some which I found the memes I make for her aren't always funny but like I said their are mostly based on our lives and what we know about each other. She has somewhat continued shearing sad depressive heartbroken stuff in her stories but it's not the same amount as before. I understand that she might need space and time to get over her second BF which by what she told me it's not gonna work out. So that's when and why I've been doing my own thing trying to get her, I'm not getting desperate or anything but it's just so confusing and she is not straight about it , honestly I think I feel worse now than when she stopped talking to me for months cuz now I think what was it even good just to get me all rattled up I don't hate her for this or feel any kind of resentment I just want some clarity and her her to see that I really love her and what something serious with her unlike her passed BFs , yesterday I brought her a 24 rose bouquet from 1800 flowers and sent it her way it's supposed to arrive today so by doing that I hope for her to see and a size that I'm old school and actually want the best for her, idk what you guys can tell me about this predicament of mine , why is she doing what she's doing and also do you see us actually as a couple, I don't mean her no bad at all but I can do so much I really don't want to give up im just not like that I would settle for her in a heartbeat and make her my queen treating her a million times better than the rest and show her what real love really is, I suppose I can update you guys on this, wish me good luck
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