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Hear me out. Do not bother with that girl you’ve idolized and are “chasing”. Specifically you younger guys. An attractive 18-21 yo girl is going to seek older men. Money, stability… it’s just the way it is.
Here in lies the point of this post. Maybe, if this resonates with you, Don’t bother “chasing” this girl. Instead focus on finding your stability, and more importantly, spending time doing what you enjoy. 2 things could come out of this:
Women are drawn towards a driven man. Thing is, doesn’t necessarily matter what that drive is. Passion/energy/vigor are dynamic and can be applied to whatever you want. How you spend your free time As a man, being focused on doing what you love, will display an involuntary confidence. Ask any woman. They love uniqueness, confidence, (and stability).
As you spend time doing the things you enjoy, you may even encounter a girl, who shares that same interest with you. Maybe she’d be a better fit than who you were originally “chasing” to begin with? You should never have to Be anyone other than your true self. Know your worth king💪🏼
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