So I'll start by saying I'm in an open marriage, a successful one spanning 10 years now. I have long term friends with benefits but I've worked so much that I haven't seen even one of them in the past year.

I'm now up to 7 inches in length from manuals and Quick Extender Pro (no padding, I have very thick foreskin). When I say 7 inches, I mean today I measured very firmly bone pressed and barely squeaked out the full 7, barely. I'm a fat guy on a weight loss journey so the bone pressing takes extra work. I'm hiding at least 1.5 inches in the pad if not two.

Anyway, how to you explain an inch or let alone my presumed 8" in the next 2-3 years? I've been thinking of claiming it was a result of tantric yoga and newfound buddhist practices.

I know, lying is terrible but admitting I have body dysmorphia enough to intentionally do PE could be a turnoff. I've been off and on FWB with one for over 25 years now and the other for about 15.

Any protips on explaining it?