I was talking with my wife and telling her about my pandemic hobby I picked up, PE. I told her why and what i do, compression hanging, pumping, etc… and she looks at me and says “You don’t need to do that”.

I was like damn did she mean I was enough already? In my head lol. I told her about my locker room shower fears in high school and she said your fine.

When we have sex now, she usually says it’s uncomfortable in the beginning. I’m not huge erect, I’m 5.3” length, 5.5” girth.

So moral of the story, if you feel like you you don’t measure up. Ask your SO and maybe your enough for them. And/or do it for yourself but don’t beat yourself over the head about your fears.