Hi everyone, these last months have been really up and down for me, I know I need to be grateful for all of this but of course I am still looking to improve.

Basically on one hand I found a great job and in the next days I will relocate to another country for it, on the other hand I broke up with my gf after 3 months. Indeed, these 2 things are not correlated, and even if I would have loved to have a long distance relationship with her, basically I got a lot of signs that our relationship was toxic and I deserve better.

So my question now is: imagine yourself in a new country, soon starting a new job (first non-internship job I ever had, so something more serious) while also have to recover from a breakup, what you would do? In particular some of my thoughts are to the fact that I will go living alone away from my parents and I will have to be more independent and in general act more serious and mature.

Thanks to anyone, I want to draft a list of goals for the new year soon