So, I moved to Germany about 2 years ago from the US and started dating a girl for a while but we never became a couple. She complained that I was too American and not manly enough. I have never heard a complaint like this before. Anyway, there was a lot of sex but she left me eventually to date another more manly guy, whom she regarded as more independent.

Fast forward, now I have found another woman and I am taken with her.. Really smitten, and she claims that she really doesn't want any real relationship.. And that she really only ever wants to be single.

Both women are educated and intelligent. Is there something special to dating German woman?