Hi! I've spent a long time struggling with dating women because I just don't fit into the typical gender roles sometimes, and I seem to be really sexually submissive toward women- like I genuinely get flustered so easily it's embarrassing- and unfortunately that's.. not what most girls want in the "normal" dating world :')

SPEED SUMMARY TO TRY TO CATCH UR INTEREST!: I'm sort of a dork but in a cute way because I know a lot of random info from hyperfixations, I'm SO passionate about nature, I've got ADHD and love saying the most random stuff to make people laugh, I'm a busy first year college student, and I'd really love to find my person! :3

Now, here's more about me!:

• I go to college in southern Ohio!

• I'm really short (5'5"), average build, a bit feminine/soft in personality, golden retriver vibes, and my aesthetic is a mix of 80's and granola boy!

• I love nature, like genuinely so much. I don't really.. connect with religion, but I feel very spiritually connected to nature, and the world around me. Nature is literally my sanctuary, which is also one of the reasons why I'm incredibly passionate about the health of the environment and climate change, and it totally breaks my heart :')

• I like going on walks, running, reading, listening to music 24/7, tea, coffee, shows/movies, video games, cozy nights in, nature adventures, vintage stuff, and more recently, pokemon cards! :D

• I do have ADHD and anxiety, and am a bit of a germophobe when I'm stressed which sucks, but all of that I manage well for the most part!! The ADHD just makes me extra quirky and silly :3

• I'm queer, and also a trans man to let you know right away, and I've been on testosterone for almost 4 years and had top surgery over a year ago! So I'm relatively stealth day to day!

• I'm kinda a furry? Like I think the art is really cute and stuff!

• I don't really know if I want kids! I probably don't, but it depends, if my partner really wanted them then maybe. But also.. the state of the world in the future....... and how expensive they are....

• I don't really like cities, and I really don't wanna live in one in the future, I'd much prefer a small town and somewhere close to a lot of nature!! Maybe the PNW? Somewhere safe, with nature, that won't take away my rights :') (the results of the election made me sick)

• Politically I say left-leaning, and honestly my values seem to be closer to some form of socialist philosophy cuz UHHHH YEAH. I could rant about that one!!

• I have very good hygiene and love cleaning and keeping things clean, I have a very good sense of smell so good things smell super good and that also means bad smells affect me really easily 😭 it also means if I like how you smell you've got me wrapped around your finger <3

Sexual/kinky stuff!:

• I get flustered easily, and will absolutely MELT if you call me a good boy. I love love love praise and gentle domination. I don't like pain and really prefer a lot of comforting. I'm looking for someone to "match my freak", I'd say I'm a bit kinky in fantasy but I lack experience with anything more than vanilla stuff :P

• I like pet play (even the nonsexual aspect, being able to go puppy-brained), I have a piss kink lol, I also love acts of service so being told what to do or pleasuring my dom is just YES, I like being obedient, I submit easily, I like to be the bottom at times but can absolutely also top (as more of a service top), anddd we can always swap BDSM test results from that one website LMAO

I think that's a decent amount of info about me! So, here's what I'm looking for!:

• Preferably you're also queer!
• Good hygiene!
• Emotional availability, I literally want to feel so connected it feels like our souls are intertwined <3
• You're gentle, supportive, sweet, protective, patient, and understanding!
• Taking things slow at first is important to me for building a strong foundational friendship!
• We relate where it matters, and have a connection! I'm not picky past those things :))

Even though I'm basically the opposite of the standard conventional man, I'd still like doing stuff like holding the door open for you, driving you places, things like that! But I also love just the most badass women who like to take the leading role in relationships too~ omg like if you wanted me to I'd cook and clean and DO ANYTHING YOU WANTED!!

All in all, I'm looking for someone to love, and someone who can love me back, someone I can laugh with, tell everything, and do anything with!!Someone to be my person in this hellscape of life!!

If you're interested, send me a chat with an introduction of yourself!! I hope that maybe this post can help me find the one!!! I'm looking forward to hearing from you <33