There is something so undeniably hot about a woman who knows that her best sex comes from getting her needs getting met by a guy whose orgasms are limited — for HER benefit and pleasure.

Nothing turns me on more than focusing exclusively on you, whenever and however you desire it. My job is to take care of your needs with enthusiasm, skill, and patience; with me experiencing your boundless pleasure vicariously through the orgasms we give you.

I love getting extremely turned on and focusing that arousal on pleasing you. I’m service oriented in and out of the bedroom. I love to cuddle, caress, kiss, and please. I have great oral skills, but freely use any part of my body for your pleasure, as long as I’m forbidden from cuming. I also love using toys on you.

I’m otherwise pretty vanilla, but kink friendly and open-minded.

With that in mind, I’m looking for someone I can connect with in other ways. I’m adventurous, active, and fun. I love to travel and see/experience new things. I believe in mutual respect, good communication, consent, and kindness.

Physically, I’m told I’m handsome/cute/good looking frequently. I’m 5’8”, about 165#, and have longish hair (there's a recent picure in my profile). I try to stay in good shape and have worked out most of my life, but due to tennis elbow issues have been less active for the past year.

I’m poly, live by myself, and have a good career.

You: Hopefully you have a good sex drive and a desire to be frequently well pleased, and you agree that limiting my orgasms benefits us both. You’re close to my age and take care of yourself. You’re good at communicating in and out of bed, and you believe that mutual respect and kindness are important.

IRL only, please. Taking the time and focusing on your pleasure in person is a key part of my kink, and online can't give me that. Please be local.

No Pro Dommes, please. I'm seeking a real relationship

Let’s build more than just a great sexual dynamic.