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Hello! Thank you for clicking on my post! I'm 23 years old from around the Kitchener-Waterloo area of Ontario. I'm looking for an IRL, monogamous, long-term relationship that will eventually lead towards marriage with a gentle femdom/mommydom who is also from KW or the surrounding area.
About me:
To start with, as to not waste anyone's time, I'm christian and it's important to me that any future partner that I have is also christian. I'm pretty progressive, in that I lean left politically and I'm pro LGBTQ , pro choice, pro vaccines etc. etc.
Physical Traits:
I'm white, 6'1", 170ish pounds (I don't actually know, I haven't weighed myself in years. But tall and skinny), I have short, thick strawberry blonde hair, and light blue eyes. Oh and I wear glasses for distances and for driving. I got them about a year ago so I'm still getting used to saying that I wear glasses.
Hobbies and Interests:
First and foremost, I'm a huge nerd. I love watching movies and shows. Some of my favourites are Dune (which I am currently OBSESSED with), Lord of the Rings, Avatar the last Airbender (my favourite show ever), Marvel, Star Wars, Disney, Pixar... honestly I could go on all day, I LOVE movies. I also like comedy shows like Parks and Rec, B99, How I Met your Mother (we don't talk about the ending), What we do in the shadows, It's always sunny in Philadelphia and Community. Miscellaneous ones would include Gilmore Girls, Sherlock, The IT Crowd and Taskmaster. This is a very short list, I like a wide range of shows and movies.
I love playing all kinds of board and card games, and I play some video games, mostly on my switch. Things like Mario Kart, Zelda and Stardew Valley.
I'm also really big into sports. Mostly hockey, but also some football and baseball.
Personality:
I'm pretty shy and introverted, especially with people that I don't know or that I'm not comfortable with. Around my friends and family I can be talkative, until my social battery runs out and then I need some time by myself. I tend to just listen to the conversation and try to inject some witty or sarcastic comments every now and then. Oh, I'm SUPER sarcastic!
I also don't drink, smoke or do any sort of drugs, and while I don't care if you have a drink or do weed every once in a while, smoking is a no-go for me.
Career:
I graduated from college in computer programming, but after over 2 years of job hunting with absolutely no luck finding anything, I've recently started looking for something else. Something either full time or part time in retail or something like that until I can find a job in my field of study, or until I think of something else that I want to do with my life.
Kinks:
I've never been in a relationship so I have next to no experience. I'm a virgin who hasn't had their first kiss, or even held hands. So I don't know all of my specific kinks, but I do know that I definitely want the more gentle side of femdom to be involved. Some things that I'm interested in are nursing handjobs, edging, pussy eating, face sitting, light teasing, pet names, prostate play including pegging and light bondage. I'm sure I'm missing some, but overall I want to feel safe and comfortable, and for you to be in control. If you really want to know more about this, you can go through my comment history and you'll probably find some more.
What I'm Looking For:
Having shared interests is super important to me. My ideal person is someone who is on the more nerdy side, so you should share at least a few hobbies/interest as me, but we don't have to be like the exact same person. As long as your willing to sit and listen to me ramble about nerdy stuff like how ATLA is the greatest show of all time with the greatest redemption arc of all time, anything related to Dune, or me ranting about my favourite sports team, then we should be fine.
I want to build a "normal" relationship first, and kink can come second. But when we do eventually move on to more intimate activities, we both know that we're into this sort of thing and neither of us has to awkwardly bring it up. Due to my inexperience, I don't want to move too fast so this won't come right away, but when it does we both know what's up. I'm also not looking for a 24/7 dynamic.
I do want this to be an IRL relationship, but since this is starting out on reddit it might take a bit until I am fully comfortable meeting someone in person. Once we've gotten to know each other a little and we've shared a few SFW pictures (including a few verification photos), then that's when I'd be looking to moving this IRL. Also I'm not interested in anything long distance, when we do start actually meeting up in person, I want to be able to see you regularly, not every couple of months when one of us gets a chance to visit over a weekend or something like that.
I have a mommy kink but it's not necessary for you to as well, I understand that it isn't for everybody. As long as you are a gentle, caring, soft dom, then that is just fine.
Age wise, I'm looking for someone who is 20-26. you could maybe be a little bit older if we really have a lot in common and we're a great match, but I think 28 would be my upper limit.
As far as looks go, I'm really not that picky. I know it's cliche to say but I'm really more attractive to personalities, it's much more important to me that we click on a emotional level. Obviously there has to be some initial physical attraction, but chances are that I'll be able to find something about you that I find attractive. All body types are welcome. You can be tall, short, skinny, athletic, chubby, curvy... it really doesn't matter to me.
And of course as stated above, I'm looking for someone who is christian, and is "my kind" of christian. Meaning that our political views are also aligned.
Conclusion:
If you're still reading, thank you! I'd love to get to know you. Send me a DM and introduce yourself a little. Some things that you should include in you first message are:
- Your age
- Brief physical description
- Something about my post that peaked your interest
- Some of your hobbies/interests, including any that we have in common
- And anything else that you want to share about yourself!
I haven't included my name or any pictures of myself so I'm not expecting you to either. If you want to include one or both, you can, but it's not a requirement at this time.
I look forward to hearing from you!
Edit: added parks and rec to shows list, I can't believe I forgot it!
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