Hey there great and wonderful people of r/gentlefemdomr4r! I am a 19 (very close to 20 though) year old submissive college student living in and attending college in central-ish Missouri. I was originally posting ads on r/femdompersonals but I think this place actually fits more to what I’m looking for so I’ve decided to write a personal here as well!

I guess I should begin by talking about myself. I am a 5’10 1/2 ft. glasses-wearing, chubby, white, nerdy guy who is really big into following sports and is fascinated with meteorology (especially tornadoes, as long as they don’t come near me 😭). I am currently attending college at a smaller community college but this fall I will be transferring to a larger university in a larger city here in Missouri (I am remaining a bit ambiguous on purpose as I don’t want to reveal too many personal details about myself until I create a bond with a person and get to know them a lot better). I am trying to get a degree in journalism with an emphasis in sports journalism, and it’s my goal one day to write and talk about sports as a career!

As far as my personality goes, I tend to be more of a fun-loving and very talkative person. I have a very dirty sense of humor so be forewarned 😂. I am a very peaceful and non-confrontational person, I typically don’t like arguments and I try to keep things in my life calm and steady, yet fun and interesting at the same time. I am a more left-leaning agnostic atheist, as I don’t believe in the existence of any gods that humanity worships. I’m not very invested into politics but I keep enough tabs on it to realize that (in my opinion) voting left is in the best interest of our nation at this moment in time. Oh, also I really like food, I should probably mention that too.

Now, who exactly am I looking for? I am looking for a gentle and fun-loving domme between the ages of 18-23. That’s about it! I want somebody who shares in my crazy sense of humor, who is relaxed and laid back like I am, but who also has a dominant side to them that complements my own submissive side well. As for kinks, I love anything gentle and fun for both of us, where I can still let you take the reins. Milking is a big one, as is more gentle praise, and just acts of loving on each other in general. As our connection and chemistry builds we can probably talk about more stuff on the kink side of things, but I wanted to provide a little snapshot of the type of things I’m into now so you know what to expect before you get into contact with me.

I should probably also mention a few final things: While I am ok with being a little flirtatious in the beginning, I am ultimately looking for a friendship that develops into something more as time progresses. I am not expecting, nor really wanting, to get sexual right off the bat. We can take as much time as we both need on that. I also probably won’t be comfortable sharing any face pics/non-Reddit socials for at least a couple of weeks, and I won’t expect you to do the same (same goes for any type of calls). Also, I won’t be responding to blank profiles with low karma, no matter how real they seem. That’s just a common sense precaution on my part.

If you made it all the way to the end of this ad, take a cookie! 🍪

I hope to hear from you soon!