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About me;
Hi, I'm a 24 year old male currently living in the UK who is looking for a soft Dom in the hopes of a serious D/s relationship.
In my spare time i have a range of interests and hobbies i like to get up to. I enjoy reading and writing, and have actually written several scripts in the past. I also really enjoy the outdoors and hiking, as well as more simple things such as drawing, cooking, baking, watching movies, listening to music and even playing music myself. (I can play the flute, bugle and I did learn a little saxophone, though I haven't touched that in a long time). I'm also somebody who really enjoys learning about new things and have a deep love and interest for history, mythology and all sorts of other things.
I'm a very introverted personality behind the scenes and my interests mostly match that. While I do love being out and active I struggle to be in large crowds or busy social settings for extended periods and it can drain me quickly, leading me to needing to find a quite space to recharge my battery.
I come across in public and the professional setting as a somewhat more dominant man, I'm fairly well spoken and I can appear the more confident one in my circle. I've always been somebody who has had to be dominant in life to survive due to my upbringing and past profession. But deep down I want nothing more than to be able to just let go and submit completely to somebody I love and trust. To just let go off everything and be able to not have to think so much. There's a beautiful bliss I find in just submitting and melting for somebody I love.
Appearance;
I'm a 5'11, light skinned male with a naturally big/broad build, I have blue eyes, very short brown hair, and a short well kept beard. I've been told I have kind eyes and a really good smile, though I'll let you be the judge of that. I like to keep active but I am not a gym/muscle body and do carry a little weight around my mid section but otherwise am healthy.
For a better look I'm happy to provide pictures upon request, and I'll be willing to show my body from the waist upwards once I'm more comfortable with you after talking. I should however warn you that I am a werewolf, so if body hair is a no for you then I understand.
(I'm also a non smoker and I only drink on special/social occasions)
Looking for;
I'm searching for somebody who I can really form a deep, emotional bond and connection with, and who will hopefully be my long term partner/forever person. I'm looking for a relationship above all else so a good emotional connection built over time with love and trust is essential. I'm not interested in a kink Despenser or being one, and want to for a true relationship with the D/s dynamic being a part of it but not the only thing.
In terms of your appearance for me it's not too important as I'm more interested in the emotional side, however like everyone I do have preferences that I am drawn to. I find myself drawn towards people more feminine in appearance, and I prefer women with longer hair. However none of these are exactly deal breakers and is just personal preference. Fitness is also important to a limited extent but not extreme. As long as you look after your overall health I'm not majorly concerned. Again, the emotional aspect will come before anything else so none of this is really a deal breaker, just my preference.
Dynamic;
In terms of the dynamic, I'm happy to discuss how much it will be a part of our life, as well as when and where to tone it back. However I would love to have more 24/7 FLR dynamic with the D/s always being a factor as opposed to only at home. I would very much like it to be a full time thing regardless of location, though maybe somewhat toned back and a little more secretive in public.
I'm a big fan of more subtle signs of dominance when in public as to not draw too much attention. But I love the thought of being teased in public and being controlled in more subtle ways. For example being grabbed by the neck or chin when kissing etc.
I'm a very easy person to tease and I melt instantly from complements and praise. So if that's something you like the thought of then even better.
kinks & limits;
Honestly kink wise, I'm open to almost everything and have kinks ranging from the most vanilla up to some on the more extreme end, so I can guarantee we will have alot of shared kinks. I'm happy to give a detailed list in private.
My limits are anything too extreme, filth related and anything illegal.
If you've read this far then thank you for being amazing and giving me your time. My DMs are open for anyone interested and I look forward to hearing from you.
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