Someone messaged me today and she said that dom’s don’t want somebody who is new because “training newbies is stressful” and they only want people who have been “trained” or have “served a mistress before” and that I’ve been lied to and given false hope to find someone to have a relationship with because of this and some other things I forgot. (This was an hour or two ago after I blocked her). I don’t know what to believe because it makes sense a little and that I’ve has such shit luck in finding someone. So many people have told me conflicting information and I don’t know what to believe anymore.

I need some guidance and I dint know who to go to so I thought I would find something here to help me.