Part vent, part asking for advice I guess. I don't know if anyone in this sub doesn't live in the West but if you're from a moderate ly conservative country how do you dommes find subby men????? Especially in countries where sex itself is barely a topic of conversation. Let alone casually telling a man you'd love to see what he looks like with his ankles by his ears?

It doesn't exactly help that my type is bear like hairy men who look like they could lift a barrel. Lol. But seriously, how are dommes in conservative countries doing it? Dating apps are not big here (unless you're trolling for casual sex). Is there a sub radar I can invest in? Because I would.