I used to always be a vanilla guy but that was mostly due to inexperience / no knowledge of femdom or even a d/s dynamic. Ive been exploring femdom, my submissive side, and my body for a little over a year now and have become completely submissive. A couple months ago, id probably still be okay with a vanilla relationship honestly. And after a good connection, I would bring up my submissive side and hope for the best, if she wasn’t into it then thats fine. But recently im starting to feel like, I kinda don’t want a vanilla relationship anymore because it seems it might not bring this level of intimacy and emotional connection that I feel only a d/s relationship could bring? I’m not too sure still, I haven’t been in a relationship for so many years so I could be wrong. Would appreciate opinions / input, thank you!