Hello everyone! I am a 26 year old introverted nerdy subby type of guy and I'd like to start a discussion on how a subby guy can catch the eye of a dominant woman on here.

Personally, I have had a massive and long term struggle to find a dominant woman on here that isn't after money and isn't a man pretending to be a woman to get more matches. I have been plagued by both of these scenarios, the only replies I'm able to get at all are always one of the 2 options.

As far as my messages to reach out to people, I'm always respectful, don't send any nsfw pics out of nowhere, lay out what I'm personally into and explain that I'm very open minded to new things. That's the general summary of my usual approach unless the post I'm replying to has stated the woman wants something specific in the opening messages. Personally in my head I think that would be a good way of going about an introductory reply to a posting, but maybe I'm doing something wrong because I can't seem to get very many replies.

So my big question, more to the dommes but also to the subs who have found someone on here, how can I improve my odds? I'll also keep the post up for anyone in the future who ends up seeing it too so maybe it'll help more people as well. I appreciate any and all comments :)