Dear folks that are in a female dominated relationship (or that had one in past), I have a question for you: what's the role of penetrative sex ((M) sub penetrates F Dom) in your Femdom relationship?

I am a switch, in past I have been mainly dominant, but lastly I am exploring more my submissive side and I am approaching more seriously Femdom and female dominated relationships. Lurking online I noticed that in porn, in art but also simply in stories and in general culture the penetrative sex where the male (submissive) penetrates the female (Dominant) seems something very rare.

From my experience, penetrative sex in kinky environments is less important than it is in vanilla (and I agree, because there are thousands more interesting things two can do than simply fuck), but in Femdom environments it seems like it's even less important. It seems that in some relationships it's not even done or it's done very rarely. On the contrary oral sex, preliminaries, anal (on the male) and denial-based games seems much more popular.

I understand the potential reason behind this, but I also understand that what you read/see online it's not necessarily really rap presentative of actual reality. So I am here to ask: dear folks who are/have been in a female dominated/femdom relationship, do you do penetrative sex? How much important is it for you? How frequently do you practice it compared to other things? How does it integrate in your relationship(s)?

I am curious to ear from you, both subs and Dommes. I am interested in eating experiences mainly from M-F relationships, but I am open to ear also from different types. I am waiting to ear your stories :)