34 M if that makes any difference ...

I had a relationship with a Dom end earlier this year. It was for the best so no sob story to follow! I'm extremely introverted and the time and effort it takes me to build up a repour with people is very taxing (although online seems to be easier). I get really nervous with social anxiety IRL so yeah .... It's an exhausting journey! I will continue looking for my perfect fem Dom but in the meantime, I am in the fortunate position where I can look for a professional alternative for occasional fun times.

This sub has served me excellently in the past! Any subs on here been down this path? I see a lot of the professional services in my area don't specifically mention the gentler or sensitive areas of fem Dom and often specifically mention a lot a kinks that aren't appealing at all to me. Does anyone have and kind of wise words on what I may want to look out for? I feel like I would need to message them with every little detail about what I want and why I want it, is that weird and unnecessary?

Having typed this out, I think actually I'm just looking for you all to tell me to have some blummin confidence and go have some fun