Heya all, I’m pretty new to posting on reddit, so forgive me if my account looks a little… fresh.

Before I say anything, if I unknowingly violated any rules of this subreddit in this post, I’m genuinely sorry and after deleting this post, please tell me what I did wrong.

Let me start off by saying I’m a M19, and I’ve been single for the last few years so things have been getting to me a bit. Now to get to the point. The last few days I’ve been trying to find a domme to submit to, however either because I started by going to the wrong subreddits or just my luck doing its thing, I have found nothing but OF sellers or just general scammers. I know I haven’t been looking for long, but when I can tell that all of the people I interact with are sellers or scammers after just a couple messages, I don’t think I’ll get very far.

And so I would like to ask this community about any advice on the matter. I’m looking for an online only dynamic, with someone who will care about me and my boundaries. My main rule is not paying people online, which I know is a BIG ask as a sub. I don’t know what the best place to look is or anything like that, so any help will be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance to anyone willing to help.